Talking about Dying - Index

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acceptanceof loss155-6
accidental deathpress interest60,66
accidents
59-64
accountant
137
advanced decision
14,37-9,44,138,173-5
advanced directve
14,37-9,44,138,173-5
age at death
43
anniversary of death
62,89,167,168
artificial feeding
38,44,53
ashesdisposal of140
assisted suicide
14,44,52-4,148
attorneylasting power of39,40,49,136-7,139,143,145-6,150
Atul Gawande
42,45,47,55,58,156
authorsdetails181-2
Bad news
11,22
before it’s too late
41,55,136,138,142,143,154
belief
23,53,86,101-4,125,126,128,150,153
bereavement
59,64,72,86-7,89,90,96,98,149,167-9
bibliographyat the end of each chapter
bibliographygeneral177
Billy Graham
55
blame
14,64,71,79,89
brain damage39
brain tumour23
bucket listfilm51,117
burial
76,78,134-5,139-40,142-3,162-3
cancer
11,13,19,20,22,25-7,36-7,44,48,50-1,57,87,91-3,125,144,152,157
cardscondolence61-2,80,103,168
care
12,16,22-3,27,38,45-7,50-4,57,67,72,85,129,168
carein last hours57
carelack of45
carerdeath of86-9
certificateof death134-5
Chapel of Rest
134
childrenunderstanding of death83-86
childrendeath of a parent87-90
childrendeath of a sibling90-1
childrenspiritual understanding86
Christianbelief17,103-11,124-9
Christianhope104-7
church
60-1,63-4,69,110,116,125,137-42,149
Cicely Saunders
45-6,55
compassion
53-4
controlgaining26-7,46,49,52,57,92
controllack/loss14-15,72,114,124,126,129
controlof pain46,48-9,50,57
copinglife threatening illness19-31
copingthe family41,95
copingwith a diifficult diagnosis26,41
copingwith the unexpected59-66
Coroner
134,161
counsellor
30,144,166
CPRdecision37-8,161
cremation
76,78,139-43,161-3
cure
16,19-20,26,34,41,44-6,125-6
deathapproach of154,161-4
deathas a release157
deathas good as possible53
deathat the time of135
deathcauses48
deathcertificate134-5
deathchioices48
deathfear of46,114,125
deathfear of114
deathin a population43
deathlife after?15,101-11
deathloneliness157-8
deathnatural37,39
deathneonatal 78-80
deathno warning59
deathnot a failure45
deathof a baby15,75-81
deathof a child91-99
deathof a parent86-90, 98-9
deathof brother or sister90-1,98-9
deathof parent/carer87-90,98-9
deathpreparation for1161-4
deathregistering135
deathsudden14,59-66,96
deathunexpected14,59-66
deathwe don’t know when63
death with dignity53-4,57,124,129,155
Death Cafes
149-50
decisionsdifficulties33-42
decisionsresuscitation37,38
decisionsthe elderly40-1
decisionstreatment33-35
dementia
39,43,45,49,57,158
denial
14,20
diagnosiscoming to terms with22-26
diagnosiscoping with19-31
diagnosis life threatening illness13,15,19-31,44,53,94,117,150,165
diehow do we?56-7
difficult decisions
33-42
dignity
53-4,57,124,129,155
DNARdecision14,37-9,41-2,149
doctors
11,13,16,23,26-7,30,33-5,37-9,41,46-8,52,54,75-9,96,113,152-3
dyiing at homeat home51,161-4
dyingalone45-6,63-4
dyingfear of114-5,125
dyingletting go129,140
dyingneed to talk11-17,21-2,29-30,34,47-9,71,73,86,89,117,136
dyingpreparation for12,16-7,41,57,91-2143,148,153,161-4
dyingyour wishes35,41,51,148-9,153,
Eastern religions
102
end of life
1215,39,45,51-7,77,147,154
euthanasia
52,54,57
faithpeople of15-6,20,26,55,70,105,108-9,123,127,
familyestrangement/reconsiliation25-6,154
familyhelp 24,27-9,33,44,80,85,116
familyhow will they cope?20-1,89,94,95-7
familytalking to30-1,34,41,80,117,150-1,169
fear
11, 13, 15, 19,20,22,24,30,52,54,69,105,113-121
forgiveness
25,56,118
friendshelp 24-9,80,85,87,96,109,147-59,165-9
friendstalking to11-16,24-6,33-4,93,117
funeralaccidental death61
funeralafter62
funeralChristian63,139,141
funeralcost140
funeralplanning12,16,51,76,78,139-143,148-9
funeralsecular139,140,142
funeralservice141-2
funeral director(undertaker)61,134-6,140-2,145,161-2
General Practitioner (GP)
23,34,36,38,134,161,163,166
God
13,27,101-9,115,118-21,123-131
goodbyesaying9,26,48,54,56,61,71,78,154
Grave Talk
149
Green form
135,163
growing old
43
guiltabout a death79,85,90
guiltabout diagnosis20
guiltafter suicide71,90
guiltrelationships50,64
guiltsense of115,119,129,148,155,000,000
head injury
39,64
healingof relaionships25,56
healingpraying for123-131
helphow to147-158
helpingthings to do/offer165-6
helpinglimits of166
helpinglooking after youself166
holding a hand
72,151
holisitc care
47,50,153
honesty
34,84,90,93
hopeChristian, the104-107,158
hopehaving15-7,34,44-6,59,150
hopeloss of27,34,66,68,69,92,114,128
hospicechildren’s15,96
hospiceaccess50
hospicemovement14-5,25,45-6,49,50,55,96
hospicestaff128,154
hospital
14,21,23,25,33,35,37-8,45-6,48,50-1,69,76,96,113,117,133-4
illnesslife threatening113,19-31,33,92,95-6,147,150-1,154
illnessterminal15-7,138
imagination
21,88,113
informaionfrom medical staff31,33-4
informationinternet23,24
informationsharing21-2,95
informationtruthful23-4,148
inquest
63,66,134
intestacy
136
Islam
102
Jesusresurrection103-4
Judaism
102-3,143
legalitypower of atorney49
legalityassisted dying52-4
legality issues after death134,136,138,143
letters of administration
136
letting go
129,140
life after death?ideas about101-111
life insurancenone61
Listening
12,72,150
living willadvanced directive/decision14,37-9,44,138,173-5
Lord’s Prayer
172
Macmillan nurse
50-1,54
medical advice
14,16,23,29-30,33,36-42
medical certificate
134-5
medicinelimits to43-58
memories
62,66,73,84,89,166,169
miscarriage
15,75-6,80-1
next of kindecisions135,140,145
NHSNational Health Service36,65,163,166
NICENational Institute for Health and Care Excellence. 36
nurse
16,24,50-51
organdonation39,42,51
painemotional50
paingeneral14,15,46,49-54
painmedicine use46,49,52
painpsychological49-50
palliative carehome50
palliative caregeneral14,35,41,46,54,57,96,125
palliative careprofessionals14,35,46-7,50-1
parentdeath of86-89
parentsgeneral15-6,53,67,70-1,75-99,121,157
Patient Advice and Liaison Serivce(PALS)33
patient support groups/agencies29,178-9
peace
16,38,55,103,107-8,120-1,124,129-30,154,157
peacemaking16,118,154
phobias
116-117
physician assisted suicide14,44,52-4,148
physician assisted suicidelegal situation52
popular belief
103
post mortem
77-9,134,143,161
power of attorneylasting39,40-1,49,136-7,139,143,145-6,150
practical help
24,65,73,133,146,147-60,165-72
prayer
120-1,123-131,156-7,170-2
prayerEvening Collect157,172
prayerhelpful for some156-7
prayernot helpful?128
prayerThe Lord’s127,157,172
prayers for use171-2
prayingfor healing123-131,144
prepare
11,47,88,94,114-5,134,139,162
prepareno time to59,65
Probateregistry136
purpose living25,27-8,30,43-4,51,55,57,156
putting affairs in order
16,41,135-7,145-6
registeringdeath 78,81,135
Registrar
135-6,162-3
relationships with God118,153
relationships unhealed
25,50,55-6,118,125
religionEastern102
religionIslam102-3
religionJudaism102
religiontolerance103
religious communitiesspeific requirements141,142
resources
16,177-9
resurrectionof Jesus103-5,108,110,119
resuscitationdo not attempt14,37-8,41-2
saying goodbye
9,26,45,54,56,71,78,154
school
85,87
shock
11,62,72,75,79,148,150-1
social media
60
solicitor
133,136-9
specialist nurses
23,29
spiritual concerns
50-1
stillbirth
15,77-8,80-1
stroke
39
sudden death after the funeral62
sudden death in infancy78-9,
sudden deathof a child96
sudden death what to say?14,59-66
suffering
48,54,64,67,102-3,105-6,113,119-20,124,147,165
suicide
67-74,89-90
suicideassisted14,44,52-8,148
supportsources of24,29,31,51,61,66,72-3,115-6,157,166
survivalfactors in19,43,47,105,114,123,148
talkingabout difficulties33-42,150
talkingdeciding not to92-93
talkingthe way in?150-1,154
talkingto a child expected to die92-95
talkingto children15, 83-99
talking to family30-1,34,41,80,117,150-1,169
talking to friends11-16,24-6,33-4,93,117
talking to medical staff23,27,35,39,41,92,94-6,117
talking to someone with experience15,27,29-31,34,65,87,93,108-9,115,128-9,149
tearsweeping72,152,168
teenagersunderstanding of death83,85-6,92-4,97.99
telling others
21-22,31
terminal phase53,161-4
terminal illness
13,15,16,87,138
timeas a healer22, 62
timefor goals and interests25
timefor renewing contact25
timefrom family and friends24-Jun
time from medical staff23
time to talk14,21,37,59
treatmentactive46
treatmentdecisions33-35
treatmentend of29
treatmentfor cure14,16,19-20,26,34,44-6,126,128
treatmentholistic47,50,153
treatmentpalliative14,35,46
treatmentstopping13,34,47
treatment withdrawing14,52-3,57
uncertainty
13,20,29
undertaker(funeral director)61,134-6,140-2,145,161-2
unexpected
59-66,78-9,81,86,134,161
web sitesadditional178-9
web sites at the end of each chapter
what to say?
11, 13.16,24,151
who to speak tochoosing24
why?did this happen62,71
willfinding137-9
willmaking12,16137-8,145
wishesmake known41,44,136,142,143